Kamasutra advent calendar for adults: Try new sexual positions: 25 Naughty days for new sensations in bed

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The Uncloak the Clitoris sex position is here to remind you that you’re never too cool for hand stuff. Another reminder: the vast majority of people with vulvas can’t orgasm from penetration alone (which is totally fine — and orgasm isn’t the point of good sex anyway!). But if you are looking to help your partner get off, keeping your hands free to give their clitoris some love is an expert move. The dares could include trying out a new position or doing it somewhere or doing something out of the box. The idea is to make sex an important part of your relationship and bring out the importance of its essence and reconnect you and your partners sensual side. The challenge does have some rules though, for starters: Another way to get more comfortable about scheduling sex is to be more active about scheduling non-sexual time with your partner. Schedule date nights out, new activities, or just quality alone time together. Doing so really helps drive home the message that you’re scheduling time with your partner because you value them, not because they’re another item on your to-do list. Thank Each Other

Yab-Yum With a Twist takes a traditional Tantric sex and makes it perfect for the front seat of the car. Instead of having the penetrating partner cross their legs, they’ll sit upright with the receiving partner on their lap. The special part of this position is how close you’ll feel to your partner. Sitting face-to-face and breathing each other’s breath promotes serious romance, no matter where you’re at. We recommend the Cowgirl/Cowboy for the analfirst-timer, since the receiving partner controls the pace and depth of penetration. You’re also face-to-face with your partner, allowing for lots of intimacy as well as easy communication. Whether you’re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Straddling said pillow (or your lover’s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want.However, there are some fun ways to slightly deviate from the norm and experiment with basic sex positions.For people with a vulva, the best-feeling positions are often the ones that stimulate your clitoris: where you’re on top, or doing reverse cowgirl, etc. These typically lead to clitoral orgasm, which is the most common type and typically the easiest to access. But that’s not the only way to come , just so you know. Deep penetration can in some cases stimulate you in other places, leading to other kinds of orgasms — G-spot or cervical, for instance. And you’re not going to get to those deeper orgasms if you keep taking the shortcut and using the same position to get off (not that we blame you).

Climb on top of your partner while they’re sitting with their legs straight ahead. This is a great one for serious friction, deep penetration and feeling intimate and close — a winner all-around. “Instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding simultaneously,” says Nelson. “They can also put their hand on your butt for more assertive and deeper penetration.”

The Private Dancer is perfect for that ultra-sexy lap dance you’ve always wanted to give. The penetrating partner gets blindfolded for this one, putting the power all in the hands of the receiving partner they slide down onto their partner’s lap. From there, it’s all about grinding and leaning to find the ultimate sensation. And keep in mind that scheduling sex doesn’t mean you’ll never have spontaneous sex again. In fact, many people who schedule sex also wind up having way more spur-of-the-moment sex than they had previously. Decide What Kind of Scheduling Works for Your Life

Alternately, you can agree to give each other a certain number of free passes per month, where you can skip your sex date, no questions asked. Treat It Like a Date Day 15—Each partner brings self to an orgasm seated in front of partner on bed. Same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Observe and learn. It’s important to remember that sex wasn’t always spontaneous, even in those exciting early stages. When you’re dating someone new, you’re still planning sex, just in a different way. You set dates with each other, and you may know days or even weeks in advance that you’re probably going to be getting into their pants. Having a date on the calendar actually creates an incredibly sensual anticipation. Day 13—She brings him to orgasm, no intercourse, hands, mouth, and body only. Bonus Play: Use breast or feet to bring partner to orgasm.She sits on the stairs with him facing her a few steps further down so he is at perfect level to enter her. She lifts one leg up and rests it against his body leaving both him and her with something to push against (her the stairs and him her leg) for greater thrusting and penetration. The clit is a super sensitive part of the body with more than 8,000 nerve endings in the tip alone, so giving it some gentle — and ideally, lubricated! — swirls, circles, and strokes is the easiest way to up your game as a lover. Just ask your partner what they like best!

If you’re looking for a hot self-lovin’ moment, the Superstar is where it’s at. Kneel on a soft surface with your torso upright, opening your knees to a comfortable position. Use your arm for support or lean against a wall and experiment with angles to find the explore the sensation. This is a great opportunity for the penetrating partner to easily stimulate the clitoris with their hands and get a great view at the same time,” says Alden. “It doesn’t require a ton of physical labor, just a little flexibility. It’s also an opportune moment for people who are feeling exposed or body-conscious to practice self-acceptance.”This shallow-penetration position makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot. There are plenty of ways to embrace the power play here, so take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting (and don’t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if its your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!) For some reason, people equate scheduled sex with boring sex. But it certainly doesn’t need to be! Here’s a simple idea: cut up a bunch of squares of paper, and write down some of your favorite sexual activities or experiences. For example, sex positions, toys, role-playing scenarios, and so on. You can also include things you’ve never tried before, but have been curious about. Fold up all of the slips and put them in a jar. The morning of your sex date, pull one out at random. Then you’ll have all day to plan and anticipate it. Or you can make your selection in the moment itself for a sexy surprise. Lotus is anothergreat opportunity for clitoral stimulation,” says Alden. “This position can be difficult to get into a groove with and find balance, but definitelyworth a try due to the closeness and heat that comes with it.”